[Autom. eng. transl.] The issue of listening in conflicting situations to which mediation interventions try to give support, is crucial and transversal to all social professions. What does it mean, in fact, to listen to these concerns and how to give voice to the fears and fears of each one, without this important opportunity becoming only an occasion in which it is possible to bring out, in an uncontrolled way, opposition, conflict, abuse, violence? In summary it is possible to affirm that even if we are immersed in highly related contexts, having relationships can be very comforting but also very irritating, it is the others that bother us: those who are next to us, those who are close to us. On the other hand, we cannot easily modify relationships, because, and in this the enigmatic dimension consists somewhat, they are realities that belong to the people who are involved, they belong, in a certain way, to the relationship itself. However, we can learn to observe the relationship as something that transcends the individuals who are part of it but is deeply rooted in people, through an ability to listen to the conflict that refers to a theory of the relationship, the difference that allows us to understand and manage it in relational way. This is a complex challenge, but, I think appropriate to the stakes. A conflict can be generated in a generative way if a reflexivity is activated on the link that comes at the risk of a gift, in some cases of forgiveness of the other.
|Translated title of the contribution||[Autom. eng. transl.] Conflicts and bonds in the plural society: are social relations enigmatic?|
|Title of host publication||Ascoltare lasciando traccia. Buone prassi di mediazione relazionale simbolica,|
|Editors||D Bramanti, C Marzotto|
|Number of pages||10|
|Publication status||Published - 2019|